Category: Parents

It’s all about the Snow Cone!

Well the summer tournament season has passed and we had an opportunity to meet new friends and strengthen relationships with older friends, officials, coaches and opponents.

Unlike the Spring and Fall Seasons, Summer Lacrosse is a whole different animal.  I see teams that call themselves:

  • Elite
  • Select
  • All-Stars
  • Masters of the Universe

At the end of the day it should be FUN and enjoyable for all those involved.  I have been involved for the last 13 years with tournament teams and I have seen some interesting things.  Parents and Coaches screaming at refs (I slipped a few times during my coaching career), Players bending the rules and playing chippy, Officials who have no business officiating at higher levels, over zealous Coaches and sometimes fist-a-cuffs between players and yes even fans.

Now I don’t want to dwell on the negative because I have seen terrific officials explain things to young men and even patrol the sideline to explain to a group of parents his last call.  I have seen kids pat and opponent on the back for a good play and help them up after a body check.  I have seen and have had fun with other coaches bantering on the sidelines together.  I have heard parents yell to an opposing goalie “Great Save”.

My son Gordon wrote something to me the other day reminding me that we don’t own the game we are just stewards of the game.

“We can do all of this because we acknowledge that lacrosse is not ours.  As stewards we only take care of lacrosse, we do not own it. It does not belong to us. It belongs to the player, the mother and father, the fan, the coach, and the official.   But even that isn’t true. It belongs to the next player, the next mother and father, the next fan, the next coach, and the next official.

Our U11 Coyote team recently won a tournament and to put it all in perspective they only cared if Coach Owen was going to buy them snow cones.  So the Tournament Directors were trying to round up 22 U11 players so they could take a picture of them and give them their champion medallions.  At least 12 of the players were chasing Coach Owen down screaming “Owen, Owen, Owen”.  I could not stop laughing and it put it all in perspective for me.  Win or Lose, It’s always about the snow cone!

u11 champs


You win some and you lose some. Putting it into perspective.

Well another summer season is coming to a close and this year has a been a whirlwind of activity.

Our Coyote teams have done well and our new program the Road Runners showed grit and resolve.  They did not win any games in the two tournaments they entered but they did get better which was the intent when several booster clubs and parents asked if we could put together a development team.

It still amazes me how caught up we get in winning a tournament and the behavior of adults and sometimes players during these contests.  Luckily most of our players and parents have been brought up with our tenets ” Fun, Fundamentals, Sportsmanship and Honoring the Game”.  While we all have our moments and sometimes stray off path it is refreshing to see that our message shines through from our youngest to oldest players.

Our entire Coyote and Road Runner programs were given the Sharyn Price Memorial Sportsmanship award voted on by the lacrosse officials at the Southern Open.  When Coach Price gave us this award I was thrilled.  I have had the pleasure of being honored for many things in my sports career as a player and coach.  No award comes close to this because it shows that all the hard work Mary Jo and I do for our program pays off with such a tremendous honor.







Lacrosse is a physical, mental and emotional game and it has to be played with pride and enthusiasm.

This past weekend I had the pleasure of coaching against two friends in the playoffs of the Southern Open Lacrosse Tournament.  Brian Dowd who coached a very good Birmingham team and Frank Cecere my childhood friend from West Babylon who I sweated and bleed with while we were Captains of our High School Football and Lacrosse Teams.

Franks team was put together for Jamie McHenry a young man who tragically lost his life two years ago.  Jamie wore number 8 and Frank formed Team 8 to keep Jamie’s memory alive.

Both teams were raring to go before the face-off and Frank and I gathered the teams at midfield to talk about Jamie and carry on his memory with a friendly game of lacrosse.  Both teams competed hard and worked their tails off.

I think we both honored Jamie and his families legacy with a hard fought game and putting it all into perspective.  Lacrosse is not about wins and loses it’s about respect and the lifetime relationships you build.

God speed Jamie 🙂  Coach Frank and Coach Lou


2016 ACC Tournament coming to Atlanta

This is awesome news for the sport in Georgia!  Thank you LB3.

ATLANTA — The Atlantic Coast Conference (ACC), in conjunction with the Atlanta Sports Council (ASC), Kennesaw State Sports and Entertainment Park and LB3 Lacrosse, have announced that Fifth Third Bank Stadium will be home to the 2016 ACC Men’s Lacrosse Championship. This marks the first time the ACC Championship will take place in metro Atlanta and the sixth time in the event’s 28-year history that it will be held at a neutral site.

“The last two NCAA Division I Lacrosse titles belong to an ACC team – we are very excited to have the nation’s strongest lacrosse conference bring their championship to metro Atlanta,” said Dan Corso, executive director of Atlanta Sports Council. “We value our long-standing relationship with the ACC and look forward to working together again to host a first-class championship weekend.”